Couples Therapy

Love is a wonderful state that makes the world a more beautiful place. In a relationship, we open ourselves up to our partner with regards to our most intimate thoughts and feelings, revealing our true selves. Love is one of the most intense emotions we can experience in life.
However, as relationships progress, disputes and seemingly overwhelming challenges may arise. With therapeutic help, these difficulties can be overcome. You don’t have to give up on love in it, becauss entirety, because of a few bumps on the road. In these moments, seeking help is wise and in some cases even essential to save the relationship from collapsing.

There are also these relationships in which partners are simply incompatible, but they still try to make it work. In these situations, we help each partner to delve deeper within themselves and find the answer with regards to what they want in a partnership. At the same time, we help them to become the partner they want to be. Only then, after going through this process, they will find themselves able to assess whether they are truly compatible. This process in therapy/ coaching often doesn’t take up much time.
If the relationship is unable to be continued, the therapeutic sessions provide the advantage of allowing for a peaceful separation. Additionally, each partner will have learned valuable lessons which they can carry forward into future relationships and avoid repeating past mistakes.

As therapists/coaches, we understand that the communication between partners can often be misinterpreted, and past wounds can also contribute to blockages in the relationship. If this is the case for you, it may be beneficial to work with a neutral third party like one of our specialists, who can help you addressing these issues and prevent past traumas from affecting your present state of happiness. Our clients often are surprised by how quickly and effectively therapy can bring new life into their relationship. Allows us to help you with making your relationship the way you want it to be.

The situations that couples find themselves in can be very different. For example:

You cannot agree on one or more subjects/ topics
Your needs/ limits/ desires are not understood by your partner
You have different expectations regarding your sex life
You yourself or as a couple are in crisis
You rather live “next to each other” than with each other and you want to change that
One of you has been betrayed and you seem to find no way to deal with it
You consider or you’ve alreay decided to end the relationship and you do not know how to do it
You want to develop your relationship or take it to a new level
Together you’ve decided to break up and you don’t know how to exactly go about it. Sometimes it is difficult to break up, because for example love or anger/hatred do not allow for it. Or you might have children and simply don’t know how to break up as a couple while staying connected as parents at the same time.
Your situation may be a completely different one – In any way, we are sure that we will be able to help you with it.

In the case of separation/ divorce, outcomes may vary. For example:

You want to give your relationship another chance, provided that it changes for the better.
You want to break up and still maintain a good relationship with each other. This option often suits people with children.
Or you want to break up in a civilized manner that doesn’t hurt anyone and then go separate ways.

Our goal is to find the best solution for each one of you. Let’s meet together at the couple session (both of you and your coach). If there are some individual topics, it may be worth to develop these in depth in individual sessions. Call us if you desire changes in your relationship.

Call for an appointment 0211 960 41 450

Coaching

Coaching helps with setting up life in a way that it develops in the right direction. It finds application in private, professional and family matters.

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